Friday, June 02, 2006 @1:08 PM
http://web.tickle.com/tests/standard/datespeak_women.jsp?test=datespeak_women-
Do You Know Datespeak?
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Julyn, you're a What You Believe Middle Pos!
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What You SayYou get an "A" for effort! You always intend to speak the truth, but sometimes you can't help but twist your words a bit. As a general rule, you're straightforward and sincere. Hats off for that much. Honesty is a rare quality in the dating scene. There's a lot of tip-toeing around the heart of a subject. You've managed to find a way to communicate your message clearly — most of the time. Good work. Whether this comes naturally for you or you've learned the hard way, you know that that misleading a guy can result in a messy situation. You know he can't read your mind, and you probably don't have the patience to wait for him to pick up on your cues. You avoid the typical game-playing that so often accompanies dating. By speaking the truth, you demand — and most definitely receive — lots of respect from the men you date. You realize that speaking in code doesn't get you very far, so you refrain from using it as much as possible.
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What You BelieveYou pretty much take what he says at face value. You don't search for too many hidden meanings in his words. Of course, there's a part of you that's aware that there could be underlying messages. But you'd rather give him the benefit of the doubt than dwell on disbelief. Although this trust reflects a great amount of respect for the guy you're with, it's probably a good thing to maintain some cynicism. It's common for people to say things they don't necessarily mean, or throw in a white lie or two to avoid an awkward situation. Until you know his intentions, it's smart to hold onto a healthy dose of skepticism. Much to your credit, however, it seems as if your first inclination is to trust his words, which reflects your open, honest nature. Good for you. Although he won't always speak his mind, your straightforward ways will make him more inclined to follow your lead and communicate directly. You'll be well on your way to cracking the datespeak code!
Ohgod,
there I go again.
